REVIEW PSYCHOLOGY of EDUCATION 4
Self Concept
Self concept is one factor which can influence big or low self esteem. Self esteem is a person’s positive or negative feelings of personal value. Self esteem includes cognitive, affective and behavioral components.
In cognitive, there are 3 important concepts:
- Self complexity: it refers to how many items make up one’s self esteem
- Centrality: refers to the fact that we weight different areas of our selves differently
- Domains: work on low domain is effective. There are 8 domains important: school, athletic, social acceptance, physical appearance, behavioral conduct, intelligence, anxiety, happiness, and satisfaction.
In behavioral, people observe their own and then figure out why it happened. People with good self esteem have a self serving bias. It means they have benefit of the doubt even when an objective observer might think that doing is unwarranted. But, people with low self esteem might view themselves in a negative light and self-serving bias works in reverse.
Evaluative self esteem- self esteem comes from comparison between an individual’s actual self concept and ideal self-concept. Example: handsome boy might not believe in himself attractive enough and an unattractive boy might be perfectly at peace with how he looks. So, the latter would have a higher self-esteem in that domain, because his real and ideal were closer.
Baseline versus Barometric Self-Esteem
Self esteem is extremely stable in childhood, but it also fluctuating. A person’s stable sense of self often referred to as baseline self-esteem, while fluctuating sense of self is called barometric self esteem.
Future Sense of Self
People with high self-esteem don’t mean that they will have good behavior. For example, a criminals or gang member have high self esteem. It shows that self esteem is a poor predictor about future. What does differentiate is positive future sense of self. Successful people rate their chances high, but not with prisoners or gang members.
Self-esteem: the real scoop
Having high self-esteem isn’t everything, while having low to moderate self esteem is certainly unhealthy. There are some programs that don’t work to increase self esteem, such as:
- All people treated equally
- No one is allowed to fail
- Competition is rarely done
- Feel good about yourself above all else
- Children don’t have honor roles
We better not give a lot of praise to our children or students. Better we say “you’ve tried hard” than “you’re smart”. Thus, he/she not only has an excellent result but they can learn that excellence comes from effort. Acknowledging high achievers is fine but must base on real success. Artificially high self esteem is dangerous, because they don’t want to be criticized, often become angry, and aggressive. Because of that, people must have self control in being able to regulate one’s emotions, impulses, performance patterns and thoughts, has plenty of positive payoff, for individual and society.
Some people doing informal observation to measure campers’ self esteem. But teachers and parents are often not very good in assessing self esteem.
CONCLUSION:
Self esteem is necessary but we must give honest feedback to children based on their real condition.
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